Lisa's Landscape & Design

Saving the Planet One Yard at a Time

Moonflowers and the Grumpy Old Lady

At the time, I was in my early 20’s and she was in her 70’s. Looking back I am sure I was a real game changer, as we were moving into an apartment that had been previously occupied by mainly elderly, retired people and the whole part of North Austin was becoming built out passed 183 and the rent was going up.


I decided I was going to make my mark here and with my apartment managers approval I grew a little garden outside the building and all over my balcony. I was like the crazy cat lady, but with plants instead of cats. She and I saw each other in passing but I mostly knew of her by the complaints she filed about our music, our this, our that. She was grumpy and unreasonable and we decidedly kept our distance. All the other neighbors liked me so it must be her, right?

Most afternoons on the weekend, my now husband and I would sit on our beautiful jungle balcony and play Yahtzee and have coffee while we decided what to do for the evening. I rolled the dice and one went flying from the second floor into the yard behind us. My honey walked around to the back of the complex and asked for my help in locating it. When I stood up and looked over I was taken aback by this intoxicating scent I had never smelled before. I started to peek into the other courtyards for a clue; leaning as far as I could barely holding the rail with my foot, I see into a yard (grumpy lady) and see the cages of long white flowers in the shape of trumpets. At least 6-8 inches long, attached to stems with large brightly colored green leaves that were so unique in the landscape I had to have it! I had to know what it was…I was going in.

I had never really spoken to her before so I thought this was as good a chance as any to ingratiate myself and strike up a conversation. Well I’ll be damned if we didn’t hit it off and become great friends. She wasn’t grumpy at all; I probably was a pain in the ass at that age and she had been living there for 20 years. It was an important life lesson to be sure. Her name was Gladys and her sweet husband Dick who had been a pediatric surgeon his whole life; joyfully shared the extraordinary seed pods with me. I saved them for over a year waiting for the right place and time.


Once I planted them they were prolific and I have had them in my garden now for nearly 30 years. I have shared them and this story with anyone who’d listen because gardening is a connection we can all benefit from even in the smallest amounts.

You will read a lot of things about this plant and its hallucinogenic properties but I do not encourage anyone to try that. Any plant that can get you high with two seeds and kill you with 3 doesn’t sound like a good plant for experimentation.

This is a toxic plant for obvious reasons and should be used with care, though as you see, a trained animal or child is a safe one. It is for full to part sun, super low water, and an evening bloomer that goes dormant in the winter. It can be considered an annual in a hard, several day freeze, so be sure to keep seed pods from the previous year just in case.

Datura, Moonflower, jipsem weed, seed pods. You simply let these dry and save the seeds for the following season.

Another great benefit to this plant is that it opens when the sun starts to go down and the “Hummingbird or Sphinx” Moth comes to visit at dusk which provides a beautiful show and conversation topic. You can see his hiney, below 😉.

The flower itself is incredibly fragrant, makes a great “Moonlight Garden” plant and after every bloom comes a new gift in the form of a seed pod you can share and continue spreading the love.

Moonflower Duranta

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Lisa LaPaso

Lisa’s Landscape & Design

“Saving the Planet One Yard at a Time”





  1. Melanie

    Beautiful story, Lisa. Thank you for sharing it with me.

    • Thank you Melanie, It is a beautiful story and an important reminder that everyone has something to offer. When our first son we had at that apartment was born with a cranial defonrmity, Dicks surgical knowledge was so appreciated. They ended up being two of our best friends and when they moved away it was a really sad day.

  2. I really enjoyed reading about this today, and learning about the plant. I wonder where I can get this in the DFW area? I went to a lot of work this year to plant a large hummingbird and butterfly garden, carefully selecting the plants. Yet strangely, I have no butterflies whatsoever, while in years past I had several. So sad about it.

  3. Joan Stroh

    So pretty! My grandmother had something similar in her garden which was her pride and joy. She died in the sixties but remnants of her garden remained for years despite being unattended.

    Is this plant a nictotania? Are you selling the seeds? Thanks, joan

  4. Tana

    I love this plant – remember it from when I was a little girl! Do you really have seeds to share?

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